A Simple Guide on How to Become an Unforgettable Bitch

11:01 PM missusmonroe 0 Comments

Say it with me, you're a phenomenal bih. Go ahead, say that shit.

#1. Stop the chasing
     - I'm not saying aspire niggas to chase you, but that that reality is actually inevitable when you stop chasing people.

#2. Insecurity? Dead it.
Images by Sharimar Cruz, @sycroix
#3. Fears? Shed it.
     - it's easy to say but a quick way to start is to stop thinking so much and just start doing. It's hard to be fearful when you're too busy doing the shit you would be fearfully thinking about.

#4. Fake that shit 'til you make that shit

#5. Stop claiming everybody.
       - for the love of God.
#6. Focus on your damn self.
     - Creatively, your career aspirations, your health and well-being. Everything about you deserves your full attention. Stop making yourself so accessible. As in, when he says to pull up on him, close the thread my good sister.

#7. Come to terms with your sexual being.
     - and whatever the hell that means for you. Not everybody is going to be a vixen, grow into what you are. Being yourself and 110% confident in whomever that is, is so intoxicating and enthralling and nobody can be that but, guess who, you. It is okay to be yourself. Which brings me to my next point,

#8. Don't let anybody tell you who you are.

#9. Show before you tell.
     - it's self-explanatory but I might need to say it again for you all to hear me, show before you tell.
#10. Mind your business.

#11. Stop making exceptions and calling it compromise.
     - I just know somebody's triggered

#12. With everything you do, demand respect.
     - I very much so believe if you're a "hoe" then be that shit. Be the very best hoe anybody's ever seen. And never let whatever title someone puts on you, or that you self-proclaim, be the reason why you're accepting of anything and of any way these wayward ass people want to treat you.
#13. In reality, there's nothing wrong with a little cockiness.

#14. Depending on the opinions of others will be your demise.

#15. Trust yourself.
    - that you indeed know what's best for you.

You deserve. Period.

xxoo missusmonroe

P.S. These photos were from a late 90s-early 00s themed dancehall party and seeing as though I've always wanted to be someones' 90s video vixen, here we are. This is definitely one of my favorite outfit combinations to date.

Thank you @sycroix for these amazing shots.